People always say things happen for a reason but why do things need reasoning if what happened doesn't matter in the end? Why must we take the time to understand such things the human mind cannot comprehend. Why do our minds tend to create such pain & grief when it no longer needs to think for physical reasoning. Think in terms of why we lay in bed wondering why things are the way they are, yet we want to sleep, our brain refuses because we lie to ourselves thinking that if we somehow ignore the thoughts, we will eventually fall asleep. Time is nothing but numbers, calculations of daylight. We make our brains believe that it's suppose to shut down at a certain time every night. It we force ourselves to do things that the brain does not agree with, we will not achieve much power to ourselves. We need to come to a conclusion that the human brain is more powerful that ourselves. We cannot push it to do such things, as it is not comfortable. Motivation should not come from others but a deep connection from inside should tell you to do certain tasks that require much importance that will lead to success, happiness within the heart. Nothing is more meaningful than a life lived with full ability to do as you please. If you have a conscience, follow it. If you don't, live life as you must but search for happiness and never find it. Those 15 extra minute spent in bed awake every night, use them how you please. To please yourself is to please others. It is not exactly selfish, but a way of life in happiness to success in achieving nothing to show but pure happiness as the result of personal motivation.